I would not let him hold colleges hostage... I would make him keep his thought/decision making process private... And I wouldn't let him tweet or post on any social media about it... I would make him respect the process---appreciate the blessing--and not rub his recruitment in the faces of all the other kids in the country (and on his team) that had the dream of playing college sports-but were not afforded the opportunity... I blame the parents and the high school coaches...